She’s More Than Just a Talking Head™
Kenspirations, as I call it, came to be in 2011. It was conceived many years prior to that, but it was actually put out in the world, and action was taken, to make it public, in 2011. What is Kenspirations? Much like my other work, Kenversations (2010), but in blog form, it's a collection of conversational and inspiring stories, words, anecdotes and quotes...by Kendra...
Sunday reflection...thinking of the evolution of values and morals over time, specifically loyalty. In a time of "I" and "me", have we lost the true meaning of loyalty to others or are we, as a people, still pretty steadfast and considerate of others and their feelings? Are we standing by our causes, friends, family, etc. when they've been wronged...?
Sunday reflection... How many people do you actually see each day? Surely we see numerous amounts of people every day...but how many of those people do you actually SEE? After spending the last several days visiting family at a physical rehabilitation facility, I observed several elders...alone. Certainly there were family members visiting but one of the things I observed made me think about how many people we pass by each day without truly seeing them. Elders lined the hallways...some in catatonic stupors, some in that state only until I interacted with them. They lit up when they were engaged in a conversation...or a simple acknowledgment of their presence. Just a Sunday reflection...an observation...a question. How many people do YOU see each day?
Sunday reflection...time after time...and especially in the last year and some change...I am convinced that certain things happen...(a lot of times things we think we want and are disappointed when they don't materialize)...or don't happen, rather...for our greater protection...
Sunday reflection... It's in my nature to want to understand the "why". This year, especially, I've learned that it's not always that simple. Sometimes, there is no why...at least not yet... To be a genuinely kind character, is to be kind hearted, at all times, to everyone, even when nobody is watching...especially then. Of course there are times when we face disagreement and conflict, but there is a way to handle even those times, with kindness. I've wondered why someone would treat someone poorly...someone who has shown them love and respect...Why someone would, in addition, kick them while they're down. It can be complex but this year, especially, I've learned that it's a reflection of who they are...not the recipient of the treatment. Wishing them well...
Sunday reflection... Sometimes when someone shows us who they are, the first time, we don't believe them. We try to help them, try to love them. Sometimes, when they keep showing us who they are, doing unto others what they would never want done unto them, it's time to let it go. Help them, love them, from a distance.
Sunday reflection...If I had the opportunity to choose my family and friends...and those closest to me...everything would remain the same. I'm so thankful for the people in my life...those in touch all the time...the ones I end up having to catch up with...and everyone in between. Thank you for WHO you are...
